So I've been spending a lot of time talking about lots of stuff with my seatmate in the office. He made realize these things:
My exes are not pogi.
Have my eyes shrank? My taste differed? People aged? Basta, he commented Jejemon pa in one. I really learned that you should not oppose your mom when she say's someone isn't good for you when you are young. Kahit gaano pa yan kagwapo noon, mag-iiba din itsura nyan. So kids, fall in love when you are old enough and your features already matured. I will definitely teach my kids this lesson!
Head over heart over eyes.
Okay, so when it comes to love, my eyes come last with my head first. Loving the one I am with, and standing firmly on my decisions. What ever happens afterwards, I have to face and make the most out of every experience. I think so I still know what to do if I fall.
I am not happy (or at least I need a reason to).
I do not want to be a bad wife, but I need more time spent with my husband. It's really a factor pala in relationships, so you don't end up wasting time doing something else. But there's career that poses a threat for time. It needs balance.
It took someone 5 years my junior to make me realize these things. Not that I do not know, but this was intended to be kept inside the baul.
As they say in accounting: Going concern - the assumption that we will continue on long enough to carry our objectives and commitments.
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